Make Yourself High Performing

In order to achieve high performance out of yourself it is necessary to follow some of the most common methods that you may have followed or are following.

Setting Up A Goal: making high performance out for yourself you have to set a goal or it will be like a stumbling stone rolling here and there. Don’t just set up the goals in your mind. Write it on a note pad. It will hardly take 3 to 5 minutes. But I bet you if you are going to do this after reading my article you would be achieving more as compared to the previous performance. It will boost up your mental powers and give you an energy that is not known to any one that where from did it came.

Planning And Organizing Yourself: If you are a manager you would be very much aware of these words but what you haven’t done is that you never did it intentionally. If it is done in an organized manner you will see that your plans and goals are achieved according to your desired results or may be more. Just as said earlier have a small note pad and write it down. Also look at the past performance where it lacked in achieving goals. You may see in days that your performance has increased miraculously

Setting Up your Priorities: every work has its own importance but what matters is what is important of all. Setting your priorities can make your work easy and achieve the deadlines of your work in time. Plan out what you will do first and what last. This will decrease your work burden I bet you.

Concentrate On Your Work: make your mind set up like such that you are not distracted by anyone, nor yourself. Sometimes a person is in mental state of depression which makes a great hurdle in work. Try to remove all the hurdles while working and you can achieve your planned work in few hours instead of whole day.

Health Is Wealth: A well known proverb which everyone has heard. Try to take proper nutrition and exercise so that your physical and mental abilities are giving you an extra strength in achieving your goals.  

Learn Something New: the more we use our brain, the more it will be healthier. Try to learn something new from the people around you even from your juniors.

Socialize Yourself:  Don’t just make yourself stick to the work. Give some time to your loved ones also. Build strong relationship with everyone, even new people that you meet daily.

These are some of the important points that can make your performance achieved in a better way

overcoming stress tips

Stress can be defined simply as the part of human emotions when he/she feels disappointed, angry or not able to meet the expectations of life, whether it is success in business, educational career or any other kind where success lags behind which also includes personal life and your relation with your loved ones such as parents, wife, children and friends.


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Being creative tips

Some of the useful tips for making your self creative. click blow to read more
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A story of selfish

After a minute or two I stopped walking and looked around me and all of the things around me were changed. I rubbed my eyes and looked around but the same thing was all around me. It was not a dream but what was it. Was it real???
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A story of selfish

Presentation Tips 4 U

Presentation means a lot in public and business meetings. I would like to discuss some of the points that will tell how you can make your presentation without any hassles.
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Presentation Tips 4 U

my story of writing

When I was a child I couldn’t write on any topic. I was in a high school and still I was not good enough in writing. But I felt that having a pen in my hand and paper in front of me gives the feeling of being a writer.
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Improve Your Listening skills

Improve Your Listening skills

Listening is the most important part of our lives. Expressing feelings and thoughts is the half way communication.
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Analyze business communication situations

Business communication is the key factor for any organization to work properly and in a highly effective manner. If you are working in an organization you should ask yourself the following questions before communicating with others.

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Late night call

One cold winter I was sitting in my room reading a book when my phone rang. It was an unknown number but I decided to pick it up. I asked who was it and the answer was......

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Use skills & abilities in right way

Using your skill in the right way is the key to success for your life. Just like every person in this world is not alike so is in the case of person’s skills or ability. You cannot eat something by force if you are not willing to.
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Interview tips 4 u

Some useful interview tips that are essential and must follow.... Try to make your interview much better next time by following the steps discussed

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steps 4 self esteem

A nice article on self esteem. Read and comment

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10 Secrets cant be revealed

I am going to tell some of the secrets which have not yet revealed or humans have failed to reveal

• God
• How big is the universe
• life after death
• a rule on which one person is said to be intelligent and the other is called narrow minded
• fate
• Dream
• jealousy
• Flu
• Rumor

These are some of the secrets that no one knows and how do they occur. Maybe there are some scientific researches but no one can prove exactly or give authentic proves.

Hypocrisy of our society

Watching videos on you tube, reading a blog or an article I come across with so many comments that make me feel like burning from inside. What make me feel like that is not explainable but one thing is for sure that our society is full of hypocrites who want to force the opinion on others. I think that if you have your own views and ideas you are free to give them to others but for what reason are we forcing our opinions on others and if a person is stuck to his opinion the other will call him by names and abuse him. Hypocrisy in our society is not politically it also include religious views, personality likes and dislikes, country issues and societal issues. These are few of them there are many more.

Another thing that comes across is that if a person does not agrees on the others opinion he will be called as an Indian or an American agent. I don’t know what is the relation of not agreeing on someone views and an Indian or American agent. I watched a video of a very renowned analyst and columnist who was saying the right thing about our society and the Muslims that we do nothing and we are nothing. but in the comments below he was called by names and some of the people commented he is an american agent. i cant stop laughing when i read that comment. I totally agreed with that man who said the truth about our people and muslims. 

Another thing which I analyzed is that whatever we cannot do or what we haven’t done in past or it was totally our own mistake is related to Jewish conspiracy. Jews have used their minds and made so much advancement despite of being lesser than Muslims. I am not saying that they are so clean and haven’t done any harm to Muslims but what I am saying is that if we are lame why don’t we look in our collars instead of blaming them.

Our people in society does not think in depth and nor do they do research. They just agree to what they listen or read. There are so many sources to make sure that what is said is true or not but no one even tries to find whether the sources are authentic enough or not or whether the person who is telling is competent enough. We just blindly follow it and the question is WHY is it so. The reason is our society is not well aware and majority of it is illiterate and cant think of their own. Those who are educated they are just educated by books of syllabus and nothing else.

After reading this article many of the people will think me of being infidel or moron but these are the facts and one can improve his or her level of thinking and agreeing on what other says.

Traffic Mess and a donkey man

Lahore the city of 13 gates is a mess with traffic. There are donkey carts, cars, motorcycle and rickshaws. If you have got the international license you may not be competent enough to drive in this great city. You have to get another license in order to make sure that you can drive safely in lahore with all the persons living a healthy life. Yes I do mean that you don’t get hit by any of the vehicle driving in lahore. In posh areas you can drive your vehicle with much competency but if you are in the walled city of lahore here there is an exam awaiting for you. There is a unique hustle and bustle out there. So many hawkers and passersby are waiting for you to hit them. It is you who can make them walk safely. if a rickshaw is in front of you it is impossible for you to overtake it. And if you are lucky enough and a donkey cart with so much of load is driving, your vehicle should have the horn of a train. Otherwise the donkey is so wise and his master is wiser enough that he will not make you pass by his donkey. He thinks that his donkey is degraded in front of your vehicle. While passing by you should call the master with a voice oye khotay (O Donkey) because he has made your mind boiled up. He will then call you by names and claim that he was not at the mistake it was your mistake that you couldn’t overtake his so called speedy Donkey.

If you are going back to your home you should wash your face before entering in your home because no one will recognize you. yes I am talking about the condition of your hairs and clothes. Dust and smoke will make your face like a beggar who has not taken bath for a long time.  If by mistake you have entered your home without washing your face your family members may beat you up because they will think about stranger getting inside home without permission. If by chance you are driving a car in walled city then there is lot of time required for you to get out of it.

Enjoy your ride in Lahore.  

Mistake makes you......

It was my first mistake and I said ok no problem I will try not to make it again. I again made a mistake and said I will try my level best not to make third time. But mistakes came and mistakes gone and I am still making so big mistakes. If you are making mistake it is not that you are not capable of doing it. It is the tool that makes you perfect in that work. And at one time you are so perfect that you are genius in the eyes of the world in that work.

So make mistakes and make them happen as they want it. If someone says he was here with full perfection without making mistake he is a big liar. If I give you an example of a small child who cannot walk yet, he fells so many times while learning to walk. His back hurts so badly but he is still laughing coz he learnt something that made him laugh. And that learning was his mistake which he will try not to make it next time.

I had gone through so many situations that made me cry for the time being but now I realize that these mistakes had made me so much grown up and so much competent that I am ready to make 100 more mistakes to learn.

filling up plate at marriage ceremony

Marriage ceremony is the event celebrated all over the world. It differs from culture to culture and people to people. I would like to give a review about a marriage ceremony, well not marriage ceremony but eating ceremony on marriage in Pakistan especially lahore.

If you have been to a marriage of a loved one you would have probably experienced about the gentleness of people when dinner or lunch is made open to the guests. Not only gentleness but also the politeness and ethics and manners. If someone in the hall tells about the food is ready to eat everybody in the hall will try to get the lead over his partner and that is the time when No one is your relative, your friend or your sibling. You are just alone in this world at that time. None of the person will ask you about what would you like to eat and what have you eaten. Be careful if you are eating too much because cold drinks are not served yet. Look everywhere for it. Look here and there it may be in the hands of waiter and you might not get one. coz there are so many predators sitting there and none of them damn care about if you had one or not.

I have talked much about the ethics of people while taking food. How about telling something about getting plates filled up from bottom to top, from left to right and from right to left. I think that who so ever has designed a plate is such a fool. Didn’t he knew that its not enough for people to fill it up to their desire.

In such events plates are filled so much that they give the look of Himalayas Mountain and they are getting out of the plate. Well not each and every bite is finished from the plate. Just 2 to 3 bites and all the food is wasted away. I don’t know why people are so unsure about if they will not get it afterwards. If ice cream is served also it is just the milk you get if you are late. Your clothes will give a horrific look at the end with so much stew rolling out of your clothes. If any one could ever have a bite from it they wil not hesitate but unfortunately their stomachs are so much filled that only one bite can make them puke out.

Unbearable Movie review (Lollywood)

Have you ever watched a movie that has only one hero and hundreds of enemies? One riffle with hero and all the enemies have their own riffles. But unfortunately the riffles of enemies are just to show the hero. only one bullet of hero’s riffle can make the hundreds dead. But 100 of bullets from the enemy side can’t kill one hero. If the bullets are finished in hero’s riffle it’s not a big deal. When the enemy shoots the bullet hero catches the bullet with his own hand. Load it in his riffle and shoots back and enemy is dead. I think if James Bond watches this movie he will commit suicide at the spot.

All of the movies just circle the same story where hero has one gun a horse and hundreds of enemies. There is a heroine also who dances in front of the hero and the hero is trying to ignore it. His face depicts all the impressions. He is in full anger and throwing money on the dancer. The most funny things of all is that when a hero shoots the enemy, the enemy dies in such a funny way and falls on the ground that you can’t stop laughing. The film production takes place in a village where there are lots of buffaloes and cows with dung.

The villain always tries to blackmail hero by picking up the heroine and now the hero whose face was like of an angry men when she was dancing in front of him comes to an action and makes every move to save her. In the end the villain dies a very critical death and can’t even give a single punch on hero’s face. Before dying hero makes a speech in a very loud voice and as the speech finishes the villain does not waste any time to die.

A bowl Of Nihari

Nihari, a favorite dish of lahoris. It is basically made from various spices and meat of Cow, usually muscles of cow are used for this dish. It is served with ginger sliced finely, green chili and some lemon. It is mainly eaten with Roti baked in tandoor. Small pieces of roti are dipped in the stew of nihari and when they are soft enough you can enjoy this juicy dish along with some chili and ginger. It is also served with the brain of cow that is fried in desi ghee. When you eat the first bite of it a soft and juicy but delicious taste comes in your mouth and you want to eat more and more. Some of the points where nihari is sold in Lahore are Waris Nihari, Muhammadi nihari and haji. In Lahore people take this in the breakfast also. There are so many spices in it that a foreigner can’t eat it. My brother told me that he went out with a Chinese to have nihari and when he ate the first bite he was unbearable and was asking for a glass of water. My brother had a pity on him and brought him a shake. He got stable after a long time and asked my brother how you people eat this dish. Its preparation needs a full day. One of my brother’s Egyptian friend asked him Do you people wait for a day and starve to eat this dish. My brother had a big laugh and said YES. and the Egyptian guy stared at him in a meaningful manner. We lahoris can wait even days to eat this delicious dish. As for me I am so much mad for this dish that I can’t even wait to eat while cooking. My mouth is watering and my stomach is getting up and down to have this yummy dish.  

Have a try if you ever get it.

Charm of Friday.... nightmare of Monday

Waking up on Friday morning is not a big deal. You wake up with your full energy coz you know there is a long weekend ahead and you want to go to work and finish the work as early as possible. Going to work and doing work with lot of energy and joy is only on Friday’s. In other days you are dull, absent and lazy and trying to finish the work with no interest.

When you are free from work and go home you are having an inner joy that makes you feel that you are alive again after long and hectic work. Gathering out with friends, watching a good movie and sleeping are the plans of your long weekend. It is impossible to do these things in the weekdays even if you have got the time. The threat of going next day is always pinching your mind and heart and you never feel doing this kind of stuff in those days. After having a joyful Friday there is not any kind of burden on your mind and you say to yourself there are still 2 holidays left. Saturdays starts by getting up late from the bed, having breakfast and then making yourself lazy and useless person. You work and make plans for the Saturday night and eventually the Saturday also passes like a flash of light. Sunday comes and what you first think off when you wake up is that you have to go tomorrow to work and this thing continues to pinch as the day passes. At night when you go to bed after preparing for your Monday morning you are like a dead person. Same old routine, waking up early, going to work, meet the irritating boss, doing work and back home with frown face. And the worst of all and the most irritating thing is when your alarm rings and you see the time and say

“O Shit Monday Again, Only 5 More Days To Go”